⏳ OK or Not OK? Long-Term
Relationships shift over the years. Some things get more comfortable, and some quietly turn into problems. These cards are for talking about the quiet parts of a long relationship.
How to play
Read the situation on the card and both decide: is this fine for us, or is it something we should actually talk about? The deck moves between routine, sleeping separately, separate hobbies, phones, friend groups, and plans for the future.
The real risk in a long relationship isn't a big blowup. It's the habits you accept without ever discussing them. This deck is built to bring those up without anyone getting judged. If a card stings, saying so is part of the game. You don't have to solve anything on the spot; noticing it is already a start.
Who it's for
Couples past the two-year mark, couples living together, and anyone who feels like the relationship has slid into autopilot. It plays best on a quiet night with the phones out of reach.
Long relationships rarely break on one loud argument. They wear down through small unspoken habits: screen time, separate money, separate plans, and the silent division of labor at home. These questions for couples are written to surface exactly that.
Like our other couple games, this deck is free, has no sign-up, and opens right in your browser. Don't try to finish it in one night — a single card can carry an entire conversation.